She Likes You If…
How can you tell if a girl likes you? It’s really simple if you focus on body language and subtext, or what’s she’s NOT saying. When you think about it, girls are just like guys in a lot of ways. That “girls are from Venus; guys are from Mars” stuff will just make you feel more nervous. Remember, we’re all human, and we just want to meet someone we can hang out with.
The first sign to look for if a girl likes you when she first meets you is whether she leans in toward you when she talks to you. If she pulls back from you, that’s not such a good sign. Another thing to look for is whether she touches you with her hand or something she’s carrying, like her sunglasses or a pen. That’s usually a gentle sign of flirtation. And if she’s nudging you with her foot, that’s a dead giveaway she really likes you. Same thing goes for reaching out for you with her hands and lightly touching you to emphasize a point.
Another telltale sign that a girl is going for you is if she is smiling or laughing. If a girl is turned off by you, she certainly isn’t going to flash her pearly whites, so pay attention to that one. If you can make a girl laugh, that’s a major part of the battle because both guys and gals dig someone who can make them laugh, because let’s face it, life can be a pain sometimes and being able to laugh makes it hurt a lot less. If that hottie is smiling at you, make sure you smile back, but you probably got that one down automatically.
The important thing to remember about casual encounters and making a great first impression is to maintain good eye contact and to watch her eye contact. If she keeps looking into your eyes, she likes what she sees. If she compliments you on your eyes, she’s attracted to you or likes something about you. You can even compliment her on her eyes and see what her reaction is. If she shies away at that one, she may be attached or not that attracted to you. If it brings a big smile and a laugh, you can probably keep talking for several more minutes and continue monitoring that body language.
Now one thing I saw recently that was a sure sign that a girl was totally digging a guy had to do with today’s fashions, and I know the guys out there are going to love this one. Now if a girl is wearing one of those peek-a-boo jackets that has the lace peeking out and she just met you, and she opens that detroit tigers hoodie to show you the lacy cami or bra she has on underneath, you can go ahead and ask her for her number, no problem.
If you’re someone who worries a lot whether a girl likes you, it’s best to meet girls in a casual atmosphere. That way both you and the girl are a lot less nervous and the girl gets that you’re an everyday stand-up guy and not some kind of wolf. The best places to meet girls casually are coffee houses, street festivals, music stores, dog parks, computer stores and the old standby, the grocery store. You can always strike up a conversation at a coffee house if you have your smartphone or laptop because you can always talk about something on the Internet like a current event or blog post or new movie. The topics are endless.
Street festivals are great because people are usually feeling pretty laid back, and the festival event is something you can always share something about. Of course, music stores are great because you can immediately start talking about your favorite jams. You’d be surprised how relaxed you feel when you find someone who likes some of the same tunes you do. And it’s equally great to meet a girl at the dog park because you instantly share a love of dogs and the dogs can always provide a focus so you don’t feel too self-conscious from being under the scrutiny of a smoking hot gal.
Some happy couples have met in computer stores. Today’s technology is plenty confusing, and many a man has rescued a damsel in distress when she’s wondering which brand laptop or which piece of hardware to buy. It’s a great way to strike up a conversation, and before you know it, she’ll be sending you plenty of positive signals, and you just might end up sharing a cup of coffee. Although grocery stores are an old cliche by now, they’re not really a bad place to meet great gals who probably have a good chance of being good cooks (at least they shop for food). If you spot a gorgeous gal you just can’t resist talking to, ask her directions to the right aisle or ask her what brand spaghetti sauce she uses. I guarantee you won’t get slapped. I wouldn’t try the lines about the produce section or you’ll get slapped, kicked or punched and maybe pinched if you get really lucky.
How Can You Tell If A Girl Likes You? It really has a lot to do with how much you like yourself and how well you can communicate that to others. If a girl feels that you are a confident man, she will immediately start to trust you and will begin to exhibit the body language you are looking for. It’s kind of like that alpha male syndrome. Conversely, some woman are immediately attracted to shy men. Whether you are shy or confident around women, if you pay attention to the body language of smiles, laughter, touching, and inclination of their body toward yours, then you will recognize the signals when a girl really likes you.
write by Eirian/Arian