First, why do these things matter and why is it so important to address them now? I believe you already know the answer to these questions. First impressions count for a lot and you, if you haven’t already done so, are planning to meet your ideal partner ASAP. Your ideal partner might walk into your life next week, so now is the perfect time to take a critical look at aspects of your appearance that perhaps you take for granted.
I know most of us, male and female alike, would love to look like someone from the cover of our favorite glossy magazine. But you must remember that models are always dieting to get into shape for the next picture shoot. He or she has been airbrushed by a computer graphics artist, had the skills of a make-up artist and expert hairdresser and the benefit of sympathetic lighting to help with definition and shape. To crown it all, the finger that clicked the shutter is attached to the creme de la creme of photographers, using the finest and most advanced equipment in the world.
Clothes
The color of your clothes speaks volumes about you but different colors suit different people, although there is no doubt that red has a special effect on most men. Many big department stores and some of the more enterprising boutiques employ personal shoppers with whom you can make a free appointment and get their advice on what colors and styles look good on you. Almost invariably, you’ll be offered an appointment at a time when the store is not busy. You are usually under no obligation to buy, but, business being business; obviously they hope to win your custom. Some of my most successful shopping expeditions have been where experienced shop assistants have taken the time and trouble to select and color co-ordinate outfits that look good especially on me. Remember to tell your personal shopper or the assistant specifically that you are not necessarily looking for the most fashionable or trendiest clothes, but for styles and colors that appear flattering on you.
The crime most perpetrated by men as they walk the earth searching for the perfect partner is to wear a pathetically cheap T- denver broncos hawaiian shirt with some nonsensical or anti-social message emblazoned across the front or back. It might have been all right for Bob Geldof but ifs not all right for you. Every man, regardless of age, needs a classic T- denver broncos hawaiian shirt and it’s worth shopping around to get the right one that makes the right statement about him. The same is true of jeans, trainers, well-polished houston astros polo and, of course, a well-cut and skillfully chosen suit. An easy way of dressing that allows you to be comfortable and presentable at the same time is to wear a mix of smart and casual clothes.
Don’t think you have to be impeccably dressed all the time, but bear in mind that love invariably strikes at some inconvenient or unexpected moment! Take your baggy old clothes and shiny suits down to the charity shop so that you can’t wander around town ruining your chances of romance.
write by Tadhg